Terry Diebold » Self Awareness

I am a Night Owl

TD — Fri, 03 Feb 2012 15:58:30 +0000

I’m a night owl…drives my husband, who is a morning person, nuts. Love the quiet, no-phone, no-interruption, crap-on-TV-time-of-night. It’s almost naughty, like skinny-dipping at night when everyone’s in bed. At the same time it is sacred.. like being the first to walk down the street in fresh snowfall. Being alone with my putzing and thinking and playing and praying reminds me who I am. I hope you have time to do nothing so you will remember who you are, too.

Big Business Has Lost It’s Soul

TD — Fri, 27 Jan 2012 16:55:30 +0000

Someone said today, “If I gave you $50,000 to speak, what would you speak on? I replied, “I would talk about how big business has lost it’s soul.” Now before you get all upset, obviously, not every business, but in general–yeah. The businesses that are really successful have usually figured out that employees are people. Take Google–plenty of food, day care, exercise equipment, people working days, evenings, nights, hierarchy low, creativity high, productivity, high. Why are they so successful? Besides obvious reasons, it’s that people feel like they count. We all want to feel like we count, like we matter–that we have value. That is the greatest gift an employer can give–and it doesn’t cost–it pays.

Do You Like Your Life?

TD — Fri, 20 Jan 2012 18:35:39 +0000

Do you like your life? Do you only like parts of it? If you are not happy with your life, there is only one person who can do anything about it and that is–no secret here–you. If you are not happy, face it, you need to make some changes. Don’t know where to start? Begin by making a list of what you need to start doing–then do it! Do the best you can, but start. Don’t make excuses, start. Start. Start. Start. Start with one thing but Start. Now, today. Start. Talking is okay but it has it’s limits. Doing is what converts potential energy into an outcome. Take responsibility–after all, it’s your life and it’s the only one you have.

Complaining is a Way to Chronically Avoid Doing Things

TD — Fri, 13 Jan 2012 23:59:41 +0000

Complaining is a way to chronically avoid doing things. As long as you can complain, you don’t have to do, fix, or be accountable. Complaining changes the way you see the world, allowing the negative to dwell within you, smothering your creative energy. Complaining drives great people, ideas and gifts from your life. Is complaining really worth those few moments where you get to feel like a victim? Break the habit today and let the sunshine in–you will find you are able to handle disappointments and problems because you have everything you need to cope. Give the energy within you a chance to show you how capable you really are!

This is not an ordinary day

TD — Fri, 30 Dec 2011 14:03:35 +0000

This is not an ordinary day. When you opened your eyes this morning, you were given another day to become more. With your first conscious breath began an irreplaceable opportunity to deepen your life by loving and laughing, by acknowledging God’s work in your life. Before you rose, you were granted a new chance to acknowledge another person’s worth and importance. This…is a very extraordinary day.

Agreeing is Not Always the Goal

TD — Fri, 23 Dec 2011 11:02:55 +0000

Agreeing is not always the goal. Listening honors two souls, the one who needs to be heard and the one who graces by hearing.

Animals! They bring joy just by being themselves

TD — Fri, 16 Dec 2011 11:45:04 +0000

Animals! They bring joy just by being themselves and that by simply ’being’ you bring joy to others. That’s why you have been created to be exactly who you are.

Telling the Truth about the little things…

TD — Fri, 09 Dec 2011 11:14:50 +0000

Telling the truth about little things…going back in to pay for the soda they forgot to charge you for…’fessing up to leaving the door unlocked…admitting you didn’t call back because you forgot…telling the truth about little things…means you can be trusted with the big things.

Stop! You Can Change Things!

TD — Fri, 25 Nov 2011 18:35:28 +0000

Yes, I know, today is Black Friday. Take a moment and think about what you want the holiday season to be this year. Research shows the bargains will be just as good in two weeks, so sit back and relax. How about thinking of something you can do for someone as a gift instead of buying everything? Or, make a list of what you want to do differently. Pick just one thing. Now is your chance to start making little changes that can make this season better. Your journey begins with one small step.

Relationship Tip of the Week

TD — Fri, 28 Oct 2011 14:35:33 +0000

How often do you complain–especially to yourself? Everytime you complain about something, it creates a negative energy around and within you. Negative energy repels others and attracts more negativity to you. Being angry makes you make mistakes. Being rushed slows you down when you have to go back and fix something you didn’t do right in your rush to get it done. Ask yourself, is it going to matter in 100 years if I’m late to my meeting because I “caught” the light? What impression do I make when I come in grumbling and stressed? Life can be fun sometimes–even when it stinks. Mae West said it best” “Life is a banquet and most poor suckers are starving to death.” Hungry?