This is not an ordinary day. When you opened your eyes this morning, you were given another day to become more. With your first conscious breath began an irreplaceable opportunity to deepen your life by loving and laughing, by acknowledging God’s work in your life. Before you rose, you were granted a new chance to acknowledge another person’s worth and importance. This…is a very extraordinary day.

Agreeing is not always the goal. Listening honors two souls, the one who needs to be heard and the one who graces by hearing.

Animals! They bring joy just by being themselves and that by simply ’being’ you bring joy to others. That’s why you have been created to be exactly who you are.

Telling the truth about little things…going back in to pay for the soda they forgot to charge you for…’fessing up to leaving the door unlocked…admitting you didn’t call back because you forgot…telling the truth about little things…means you can be trusted with the big things.

Little things. Like putting the neighbor’s paper on their porch. Posting a positive comment on facebook. Emptying the dishwasher when it’s not your turn. Life may turn on the big events but it is sustained or damaged by the small ones. You may not realize it but you can completely change a person’s day by a simple act of kindness. Doing something thoughtful is like sprinkling fairy dust on someone’s life. It is magical and gives you wings.

Yes, I know, today is Black Friday. Take a moment and think about what you want the holiday season to be this year. Research shows the bargains will be just as good in two weeks, so sit back and relax. How about thinking of something you can do for someone as a gift instead of buying everything? Or, make a list of what you want to do differently. Pick just one thing. Now is your chance to start making little changes that can make this season better. Your journey begins with one small step.

Three Best Tips to Enjoy Thanksgiving

1. Rise Above It. Be pleasant but detached when you find yourself with someone you dislike. If something is upsetting, don’t engage. Nod distractedly and “suddenly” remember someone you need to see. Don’t allow your reaction to spoil your day.
2. Don’t compare. Everyone has their best mask on during the holidays–don’t compare your failures to their masks. No one is problem free–no matter what they say. You aren’t in competition with anyone but yourself to live the gift of your life well.
3. Savor the moment. The meaning of this day is what is important. Holiday rituals are about Loves. Look around at who’s part of your life, the history you have with them, your freedom, the things you take for granted. If you are alone, you can enjoy a day off, fill in for someone so they can be home, appreciate your life. Thanksgiving is a state of mind. http://blog.terrydiebold.com/